What’s Love?

Have you ever wondered or misinterpreted that love was a form of someone hurting you with words? Was it the abuse that you felt they cared hard? Did you feel that it was your fault that he/she hit you?

I got news for you!

That is not love! We often think "(not fully developed to know that it is NOT love) that when a man/woman say hateful things that they love us. But why? Because some (not all) focus on the part that if they are that angry that means they must love, or they would not be acting in this way. Some have been trained that this is love from seeing it through family members.

So how can we notice the action word (LOVE) yes love is action because when you love someone you are showing that you care for them. Kindness, helping them out, being a listening ear without trying to make you feel bad about yourself. Love is uplifting. Love is generous. Love is spontaneous. Love is God and how he sent his one and only son that we may LIVE through him (1 John 4:9 NIV) This is how he showed his love for us………through ACTION. He loved us. He did not want us to die! (John 3:16 NIV) For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.

With that being said, can you say that you are loved by your partner? Can you attest that you being in a domestic situation is an act of love or hatred?

Think about it, those that want to do bodily harm to you and hurt you have NO CARE in the world for you. They are not your project, and you should not be trying to fix them! Some will probably never be fixed because they don’t want to, but do you want to be fixed? Do you want to be healed? Do you want God to deliver you and direct your paths? Are you tired of not knowing your worth?

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